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If you take virtually every problem in America today, at the root of it you will find the failure of a man (e.g. 93% of prisoners are male and 85% of these come from fatherless homes). Today there are approximately 98,000,000 men in America, 63,000,000 of which don't know Christ. Only 8,000,000 of these are active in discipleship. This would be the equivalent of 12 guys playing on a football team and only 1 of them knowing how to play football.

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Suffering: 70 Things Every Man Needs to Know PDF Print E-mail
Written by Patrick Morley   
Sunday, October 16 2011 00:00

63. Suffering
Excerpted from Pastoring Men, Moody Publishers.


C. S. Lewis wrote in The Problem of Pain, "If God were good, He would wish to make His creatures perfectly happy, and if God were almighty, He would be able to do what He wished. But the creatures are not happy. Therefore, God lacks either goodness, or power, or both. This is the problem of pain in its simplest form."

Of the many questions raised by suffering and evil, these four capture most of the heart issues:

  1. Does God know? (the issue of His omniscience)
  2. Does God care? (the issue of His benevolence and love)
  3. Can He do anything about it? (the issue of His omnipotence)
  4. If He knows, cares, and can do something about it, why doesn't He? (the issue of His purposes and will)


So much about suffering and evil remains opaque and impenetrable. On the other hand, a lot is knowable. Here's the elevator speech:

  • In this world we all will suffer. Faithful Christians suffer (see 1 Peter 4:12; John 16:33). The perfection of creation was corrupted by the fall and, with it, human nature. So, because of the fall, we must do our work while feeling the prick of thorns. Humans are not capable of not sinning in their own strength. As it is, suffering plays a large part in the Christian faith on the road to redemption.
  • We are called to suffer. We all must go through hardships (see Philippians 1:29; 1 Peter 2:21; Acts 14:22; 1 John 3:13). Not only have we been given the privilege of trusting Christ, but also of suffering for Him. He said, "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33).
  • There is purpose to suffering. We can handle anything if we think it is for a purpose (Romans 8:20-21; 2 Corinthians 1:9; 1 Peter 1:6-7; Romans 5:3-5). "Our light and momentary problems are achieving for us a glory that far outweighs them all" (2 Corinthians 4:17).
  • There is comfort in suffering--because there is purpose to it (Psalm 119: 67, 71, 75, 92; Hebrews 12:7-11). Like David we all can say, "It was good for me to be afflicted. Now I obey your law." God uses suffering to redirect us back to him.


I love suffering. Not while it is happening, of course. But as I look back, most of the progress in my life took place after God "refined" (by fire) something that I could/would never have dealt with on my own. Some of our greatest heroes discovered and declared this truth: Daniel (Daniel 11:35), Paul (2 Corinthians 12:8-10), Peter (1 Peter 5:10), and James (James 1:2-4).

I love suffering because it produces in me the life of Christ, and I know of no other way to get it. I haven't been able to get it by self-will. I didn't get it through prosperity. It hasn't come to me through learning.

Great Quote: "He whom God loveth he beateth the hell out of."--Jamie Buckingham.

For More: Go to www.pastoringmen.com and click "63. Suffering" (1) see Part 6, "The Season of Suffering," in Seven Seasons of The Man in the Mirror; and (2) see or hear "Avoiding Suffering" in The Man in the Mirror Remix series.


#444 © 2011. Patrick Morley. All rights reserved. This article may be reproduced for non-commercial ministry purposes with proper attribution.

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